Dear Zoe,
I was upset with you today. You do make your daddy and mommy upset with you sometimes. But most of the time, we are very happy to have you in our life because you are so cute, loving and smart. You learn so fast!

Today, you didn't want to sleep when told by mommy.You wanted to keep playing.

So after a long time trying to encourage you with the soft approach, mommy and daddy took the harder approach. Thats when your daddy stepped in and gave you a scolding.

You immediately listened to me and then somewhat unwillingly obeyed and tried to sleep.

I felt sad you had to be scolded but felt proud of you, since you were so obedient when I put my foot down.